This semester I withdrew from a class. I consider this a failure because I did not complete all that I intended to. I put had too much on my plate and chose to withdraw instead of getting a bad grade. I learned to be realistic about every decision and never bite off more than you can chew. I handle failure by not dwelling on the embarrassment or disappointment and focusing on solutions and how to move forward. This class has not had a huge impact on my perception of failure.
Hello Sarah,
ReplyDeleteI think this has happened to many people at the University of Florida. Students take on more than they can actually handle and end up letting a few balls drop. I have felt so much pressure to be involved in so many different organizations while also maintaining high grades. I also try to not dwell on the negative when I encounter failure. There's no use in not looking at failure as a learning opportunity and continuing on with your life.
Hi Sarah,
ReplyDeleteI have withdrawn from a class before, it feels awful but I think that it's a lot more common than they make it seem. From that experience I learned to keep myself on a limited schedule and not take a full load of classes every semester because they all suffer for it. It may take me a little longer to finish my degree, but I'll have better grades to show for it.
Hi Sarah,
ReplyDeleteYou are definitely not alone, I also have withdrawn from a class here at UF and felt awful about it after. But, as with all events of failure, I learned something from withdrawing, just as you did. I learned to keep a manageable schedule and not overwork myself. I'm glad you're viewing your situation as something you can learn from.